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by quite peculiar

Why Didn’t He Call?

Nothing is worse than going on a date (or even several dates) with a guy and then suddenly he stops calling. Or you give and guy your number and he seems totally into you but then he never calls. Maybe you’ve even made plans with him and didn’t show up and didn’t bother to call to tell you.

You can be left asking yourself “why didn’t he call?”, stressing over what you may have done wrong, or sometimes even worrying what might be wrong with you.

Let’s face it, it’s painful when a guy doesn’t call and the worst part is not knowing why. The truth is there are any number of reasons that guys don’t call you back and each situation is different. Here are some common reasons guys don’t call back that may help you sort out your own situation.

He’s Unavailable

This is one of the pitfalls of meeting guys at clubs or out at a bar. Many of the “single” guys in the bar really have girls or wives at home waiting for them. He may have been caught up in the moment, flattered that you seemed interested in him and flirting more than he should of.

The next day when the booze has worn off he forgets the whole thing or pushes it to the back of his mind and gets back to life with his wife or girlfriend.

He’s Not Ready for a Relationship

If you’ve gone on a date or two and thought things were going well and then your guy just stopped calling out of the blue it could be because he’s not ready to be in a relationship. It might be that he has a fear of committment and things were getting too serious for him. Or maybe he just got out of a long relationship and isn’t ready to get into another.

Perhaps he just wants to date lots of girls and not settle down with one just yet. No matter what the reason a lot of times guys just aren’t ready and don’t quite know how to tell you that so they just stop calling.

He’s Scared You’ll Reject Him

A lot of guys don’t call even if you have given them your number because they are afraid that you will still reject them. They run scenarios through their mind of you having given them a fake number, you suddenly being too busy to see them or anything else they can envision going wrong.

Before long they have worked themselves into believing that you aren’t interested in them and rather than risk rejection they just don’t call.

Obviously there are other reasons men don’t call, but these are a few of the most common.

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Good luck!